Let Us Speak Healing Words In Amongst Hurting People
The Bible tells us to speak words that build each other up according to what they need (Ephesians 4:29). Sadly, we live in a world where bullying has become a sport, where hurting others seems like good fun and intimidation in all areas is expected. Leaders curse each other and lie, operatives curse each other on behalf of said leaders, and the strong search for the weak so that they can benefit from their pain.
One of the top 10 bestselling motivational books of all time was, “Looking out for Number #1” written by Robert Ringer who also wrote “Winning Through Intimidation.” This mentality emphasis me first and anyone else next. Hurt others before they hurt you. But the Bible tells us that a good name and favor is better than the riches that many seek (Proverbs 22:).
The Bible also says that gentle words are to be preferred over harsh words (Proverbs 15:1). A word spoken at the right time is like apples of gold in a silver setting (Proverbs 25:11). Rather than being warriors and attacking others, we should be people who practice self-control (Proverbs 16:32). It may be easy to retaliate against others because of how they are perceived to have treated us, but God tells us to be still and that He would fight your battles (Exodus 14:14).
Let us just pray for our enemies that they would come to know that God is more than enough for their inner conflicts, evil, and struggles. He can give them the peace that they need when hurting others. Despite how great and powerful people are treating others, let us remember that our God is in charge and He will take care of our enemies.
Ephesians 4:29
New International Version
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Proverbs 22:1
New International Version
22 A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.
Proverbs 15:1
New International Version
15 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 25:11
New King James Version
11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold In settings of silver.
Proverbs 16:32
New International Version
32 Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self-control than one who takes a city.
Exodus 14:14
New International Version
14 The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”