How Should We Behave in 2025?
As we step into 2025, it’s clear that the world is changing—especially when it comes to how people treat one another. Kindness is sometimes seen as weakness, and bad behavior is often celebrated. Jokes can cross the line into cruelty, and hurting others is brushed off as entertainment. In times like these, it’s important to ask: How should we behave?
The Bible gives us a clear answer. Ephesians 4:29-32 (The Message) encourages us to:
· Be mindful of our words
· Avoid causing grief to God
· Show gentleness and kindness
· Forgive others, just as God has forgiven us
But what if people around us don’t act the same way? What if they continue to be unkind, ungrateful, or uncaring? While we can’t control others, we are responsible for our own actions. One day, we’ll all answer for how we lived (Romans 14:11-12). That’s why we’re called to focus on our own hearts, rather than judging others (Romans 14:4, 13).
A great way to check ourselves is to ask: How would I feel if someone treated me this way? Would we want others to judge us harshly? Would we appreciate being treated with kindness, even when we don’t deserve it? The Bible reminds us of a simple but powerful rule: “Do to others as you would have them do to you” (Luke 6:31). And whenever we have the chance, let’s choose to do good (Galatians 6:10).
In a world where negativity is easy, let’s stand out by choosing kindness, integrity, and love. Because no matter how much the world changes, doing good will never go out of style.
Ephesians 4:29-32
The Message
29 Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift.
30 Don’t grieve God. Don’t break his heart. His Holy Spirit, moving and breathing in you, is the most intimate part of your life, making you fit for himself. Don’t take such a gift for granted.
31-32 Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.
Romans 14:11-13
New International Version
11 It is written: “‘As surely as I live,’ says the Lord,
‘every knee will bow before me; every tongue will acknowledge God.’”
12 So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God.
13 Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.
Romans 14:4
New International Version
4 Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand.
Luke 6:31
New International Version
31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.
Galatians 6:10
New International Version
10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.